Friday, July 31, 2009 @ 12:30 AM
(Why do we SHOUT when we are ANGRY)
One day, a professor asked his students 'Why do we SHOUT instead of speak when we are ANGRY?'
All the students thought for a while. One answered 'Because we lost our cool. That's why we SHOUT.'
Asked the professor again, 'But the person is just right next to you, why can't we talk softly but have to SHOUT?'
Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor.
Lastly explained by the professor 'When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart. To mask the DISTANCE we felt, we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other party can hear us.' 'But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further. So we SHOUT even louder...'
'It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only we do not shout, we whisper into each other ears. Why?' 'This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepen, we reach a state of communication where there is no need for words.' 'We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look,' concluded the professor.
'Therefore, when we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts drift apart. WAIT a few days. When you feel your hearts are no longer far apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there
**from yuxiang's blog
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Thursday, July 30, 2009 @ 10:23 PM
LIFE-LEss
I just finish Conduct Situational Analysis Written Assessment yesterdae. First few question was busy writing till the last few questions I was stuck at doing it. Because I don't know what to study and I thought I wanted to study the morning itself and who knows I overslept and forget to wake up.
LGA 1 to 4 is totally in a mess! lots of work to redo... add on and so on. How I wish I'm in poly doing powerpoint presentation...where I got to outsource for those seniors work or those who already done the module and then I can easily COPY & PASTE! In that way, life is so simple and 好命咯。因为什么都不用做,为一做的就是只需要用一用头脑来发挥想象力。Seriously I don't know why i'm here. Since the start of this module been trying to do those LGAs one by one. email(s) been coming to and fro from uncle tan and Joanne. Shukor's my other team member was sick. Hope he is ok...lots of people getting sick nowadays including ahken and jt ...And 7 days MC been given..
Tml would be my MDP oral and then going to have a long break. except that thurs going back to school for CSA oral. So plan for any sai le... but xueying if u still want to go msia we still can see which dae free to go.
I got to go finish up my LA for tml if not im going to die.
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Monday, July 27, 2009 @ 11:22 PM
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I'm just seriously so tired to do anything.
I shall finish up my NDP post as and when I feel like.
Yawning all dae long...
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@ 5:15 PM
NDP PREVIEW!
YEah NDP preview...
First time attending it at this new location.
I loved the structure and design of everything.
The special EYE! Which in the first place I din even know that it was a screen.
and there you go! Spot my fav. Red Lions!!!!
CAn you see them?
I'm so proud of them... I rmb telling mum a few years back that I'm going to learn that!
one by one and here they come. It's really a nice scene when they start saying that we are going to welcome them. And then everyone will start to look up the sky to spot for them. However there is this eagle playing a fool flying around and initially lots of ppl thought that was the sign of them. But it's not! Then I spotted a helicopter and knowing that they will be jumping off from there. and its really, really nice!
not to forget the host, mark lee, gurmit, michelle? and I forget the name of the other one.
Fun part... there goes our LEE HSIEN LOONG... Haahas.. thats just a rehearsal.
you should know who is this...
rather amazed by this... I thought that its only the design of the stage but did not know that each and every individual of this square holds a single person each. Which means that every level 7*7=49 ... thats amazing.!
LAStly fire works... I got the video uploaded to FB. And really got heart shape de fireworks leh. HAHA.
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